You and your significant other just broke up, you’ve cried your tears, made voodoo dolls resembling them and destroyed all the old photos. Or maybe the two of you were the lucky exception and ended on good terms. Either way, now it comes time to move on with your life.. but how long should you wait before you start dating again?

Well, there’s two ways of approaching this question. On one end you might think the longer you wait the better, just to ensure that nobody’s feelings get hurt. On the way opposite side of the spectrum you may be more encouraged to follow the old, wise proverb passed down from your mom (or probably not) “the best way to get over someone is to get under somebody else.” Either way, the following tips might give you some perspective on how to move from one to the next in a mature manner. Read the rest of this entry »

You and your new significant other are head over heels for each other: you want to spend every waking minute together and use any excuse to be alone. Well there’s no better way to do all the above than to jet off somewhere on a romantic getaway.  But then you ask yourself, what if it’s too soon for them?  What if merely suggesting the idea is enough to send them heading for the hills?

There’s no rules set in place to let you know when it’s ok  to take a vacay with that special someone. However, there are several things you should and shouldn’t do that will help guide you to your decision.  And remember, any relationship meant to last, will not end just because you suggest a simple idea like a vacation…

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While a good handful of relationships end in flames, there’s those that end with a mutual agreement to move on from each other.  In some cases both parties recognize that they don’t belong together and decide they may be better just as friends. This brings up the age old question: After all is said and done, is it possible to still be friends with an ex?  By defining what is and isn’t appropriate, we’re going to try to get you past that awkward stage and into the comfortable friend zone . Read the rest of this entry »

Dear Gentlemen,

With the increasing number of modern independent women in the world, you often times blur the differences between what is considered polite on a first date and what is considered an act of overbearing masculinity.  We understand it’s tough making transitions in life but it’s also time to take the next step.  So if you want to see that pretty girl’s face on a second date, we suggest you take note below.  We’ve broke it down as simple as you possibly can…

DO = Polite

DON’T = Douche Bag

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Two of the most important people in your life, your boyfriend (or girlfriend) and your best friend, can’t stand the sight of each other.  They flat out hate each other.  You can feel more tension in the air when they’re together than you can at a dinner table with Jay Leno and Conan O’Brien.  It’s only a matter of time until the rope (you) in this match of tug of war snaps.

So what can you do?  How can you get them to like– or at least be civil toward each other when their in the same room?  The answer isn’t that simple considering you’re dealing with people’s emotions and personalities. However with a little help from our “Do and Do Not” list below, you’ll be well on your way down the road of peace and happiness.  Next stop, North and South Korea…

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There’s no question that every guy should have at least one good friend of the opposite sex that he can turn to during times of desperate needs.  The question is, how do you be a good friend back?  There’s many things that can instantly change your status from great guy friend to creepy, nosey guy who needs to get a life.  However, with a few tips you should be well on your way to maintaining a life long friendship with the coolest girl you know, and believe me, you’ll need her! Read the rest of this entry »

We’ve all heard of them, some of us have even have them. Friends with benefits (or FWB), they’re the friends that you can have fun with physically and hang out with afterward without all the messy emotional attachment and commitment. Right ? Not so much. All though the idea seems great and harmless, the actual relationship may not stay that way for long. Here’s a few tips to keep your FWB from becoming your enemy.

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