I am 48, and I have never had an orgasm, I have been in 2 long term loving relationships and had a very good sex life, and have 1 child. I am single now and still have a healthy sex life, but have never been able to have an orgasm, I am relaxed, confident, comfortable, will try new things, have tried toys, lots of clitorus and viginal stimulation,oral and penetration, different positiosn, even just the best normal ones, gels, stimulas condoms, you name it, Ive tried it. Even when I dont try it still hasnt happened ever. I have heard that some women just dont and Ive heard that its possible for all women. I have tried myself and cant seem to find my g-spot, (so how can anyone else) froim what I have read its a soft spongy part at the front of the vigina about 2 knuckles in, I think I can feel this, but Im not sure as nothing happens when I touch in this area. Apart from all that sex feels great and is enjoyable, but I would love to exprience an orgasm. Can anyone help ?
d_love_sosa184 days ago
Answer 1 of 3
I think i cold help u but if its good sex u might can't have one
asknwunderen198 days ago
Answer 2 of 3
Maybe you're trying too hard. Good sex for some, like hunger is more keenly satisfying when the need is compelling. So maybe try no sex for a couple weeks or longer, no toys or anything but a slow build-up... sexting... cuddles... lots of hugs... then when you're ready... lots of skin to skin contact. I think the biggest thing is just relaxing into the moment and following his lead. Don't think, just feel. Let yourself sink into the sensations of the moment. x
terrible idover a year ago
Answer 3 of 3
You still might be putting too much pressure on yourself. Ive got women to orgasm for their first time and its difficult work (no matter the age). But the key to all of it is relaxation. Beyond that you might be less sensitive than most.