Orgasms

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I am 48, and I have never had an orgasm, I have been in 2 long term loving relationships and had a very good sex life, and have 1 child. I am single now and still have a healthy sex life, but have never been able to have an orgasm, I am relaxed, confident, comfortable, will try new things, have tried toys, lots of clitorus and viginal stimulation,oral and penetration, different positiosn, even just the best normal ones, gels, stimulas condoms, you name it, Ive tried it. Even when I dont try it still hasnt happened ever. I have heard that some women just dont and Ive heard that its possible for all women. I have tried myself and cant seem to find my g-spot, (so how can anyone else) froim what I have read its a soft spongy part at the front of the vigina about 2 knuckles in, I think I can feel this, but Im not sure as nothing happens when I touch in this area. Apart from all that sex feels great and is enjoyable, but I would love to exprience an orgasm. Can anyone help ?

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Alexis J.

Alexis J.over a year ago

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The Big "O"

I would definitely try using sex toys alone and with a partner. My boyfriend has personally used a silver bullet on me and I love it! I recommend using this toy during sex or just for personal use. My favorite position to use the bullet is during doggy-style. While my boyfriend penetrates me, I stimulate my clit with the bullet. The vibrations from this toy moves through my vaginal walls, sending new sensations throughout my body. Not only does it add increased levels of stimulation to my clitoris but it also stimulates my man's testicles simultaneously. I highly recommend this toy to anyone who has difficulty reaching an orgasm during sex.

Now for finding your G-spot I recommend G Spot Slim Vibe: This is one of the best G Spot vibrators I have ever used. Unlike other vibrators that have seams running the length of vibrator that can harbor bacteria. The Slim Vibe is seamless and has a gloss finish. The hard plastic vibe is firm enough to hook into any magical gspot area. It won't get sticky when you add lube or when you have to squirt (trust me you will squirt a ton) during those yummy gspot sessions! http://www.blissfulgoodies.com/G-Spot-Slimline-Vibe-Pink/sku-BN32310?a=artificial_vagina

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d_love_sosa

d_love_sosaover a year ago

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I think i cold help u but if its good se...

I think i cold help u but if its good sex u might can't have one

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asknwunderen

asknwunderenover a year ago

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Take A Break From Sex

Maybe you're trying too hard. Good sex for some, like hunger is more keenly satisfying when the need is compelling. So maybe try no sex for a couple weeks or longer, no toys or anything but a slow build-up... sexting... cuddles... lots of hugs... then when you're ready... lots of skin to skin contact. I think the biggest thing is just relaxing into the moment and following his lead. Don't think, just feel. Let yourself sink into the sensations of the moment. x

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terrible id

terrible idover a year ago

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As relaxed as you are.....

You still might be putting too much pressure on yourself. Ive got women to orgasm for their first time and its difficult work (no matter the age). But the key to all of it is relaxation. Beyond that you might be less sensitive than most.

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