Sexual Problems

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How to Last Longer in BED!!!

Ok so im not premature by anymeans but i would like to make those 15 minute sessions last like an hour... here are my questions:

1.) How about extended pleasure condoms? I've heard alot about these, and my main question is: they ALSO NUMB THE FEMALE? because i dont want whoever im fooling around with to go numb also ya know?
2.) Does Masterbating more really work?
3.) whats the deal with the cock-ring? does that work?
4.) Any other advice!

Alot i know! but thank ya'll so much for helping!

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treat_pe

treat_peover a year ago

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Just Concentrate On The Moment!!!!

Concentrate only on the here and now and only on her. Forget about what happened to you in the past. Forget about your lack of partners or her greater experience. Forget about any differences in looks. All that matters is now, you and her.

Do this regularly and I guarantee that you will be able to extend yourself significantly.

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preEremedy

preEremedyover a year ago

Answer 2 of 6

A Solution For You.

There are various approaches to lasting longer in bed ranging from exercises to supplements. A common technique that I have used myself is to masturbate and when I am about to ejaculate hold it in and stop then go again and repeat. You may also be benefited by performing jelqing penile exercises in which you pull on the head while supporting the base of the shaft and stretch the penis. This will activate the memory tissue within the penile glands and allow you to last much longer if performed correctly.

Although You may not have premature ejaculation there is an excellent Ebook that has some amazing techniques called http://www.facebook.com/pages/Premature-Ejaculation-Remedy/190709414310202">"The Ejaculation Trainer". Check it out. I know it sounds bad but whatever, I bought the dang thing and I was actually very impressed with the results I had achieved. I hope I was able to help and have a great day!

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Gabriel F

Gabriel Fover a year ago

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2) masturbating

We are creatures of habit. if you are masturbating, make sure you are holding the desire to ejaculate. there are techniques to last longer and orgasm multiple times. I like to masturbate to create a habit of lasting longer and holding on to my seeds. I noticed that sometimes I can pre-ejaculate a white clear liquid and when I do I last way longer. Wear a condom though, girl can get pregnant with this pre-ejaculation.

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Let them know Gabriel F sent you. Love there advice and can't really take credit for all of it.

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prolongejaculation

prolongejaculationover a year ago

Answer 4 of 6

Don't Take Undue Pressure

The worst thing you can do during sex is to worry about what will happen if you can’t last long enough. Just relax, put the other steps I have showed you into action and enjoy the moment. If you do happen to ejaculate early it’s not the end of the world. There are lots of things you can do to last longer, and be sure that with a little dedication and practice, you will be lasting longer in bed in no time.

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sexpert

sexpertover a year ago

Answer 5 of 6

Edging

To add to PinkRoses wonderful advice, I would say that you can do masturbatory techniques called edging. This is where you masturbate till you feel you are about to cum and then stop, wait, and then go again.

The idea behind this is to learn your boundaries and where the point of no return is, as well as to get used to being on the verge and holding back.

My partner sometimes wears a vibrating cock ring, and it feels very good for women (it basically turns your penis into a vibrator) but it can also provide a gentle yet pleasurable numbing sensation for the guy. Although, if you are especially turned on by vibrations you might have the opposite effect.

I think another very common and useful technique is when having sex to practice a form of edging and essentially bring yourself very close, but then change your rhythm or introduce oral or manual stimulation instead of penis-in-vagina stimulation, and this can keep the pleasure going for her, while giving you time to settle down and prepare for another round.

If you don't want to pull out, you can also try the technique where you remain full penetrated, but then move side to side and grind your pelvis against hers (in almost a circular motion). I don't know if I am explaining this well enough, but it doesn't have the same "in and out" stimulation that tends to get guys off, but it does stimulate her clit quite well.

In short, go experiment with multiple ways of doing it. Keep at it and practice.

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PinkRoses

PinkRosesover a year ago

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Experiment

From my experience, there doesn't seem to be any proven method. Coincidentally, there's a great article on this exact topic in the most recent Playboy issue. It talks about Big Pharm currently trying to hit the jackpot on new medicines to make men last longer. When analyzing the potential market size, they say it would completely dwarf that of the erectile disfunction/viagra type market. Just shows you how common this question is, even if people try to laugh at others who ask it.

I think you need to try different methods. I had a boyfriend who would swear by masturbating during the day if he knew he was going to be having sex that night. However, I had a girlfriend who said her boyfriend would use a cock-ring or try to squeeze his penis when he felt he was going to cum, and it would reduce the sensation to coming and he could go back to "work".

Just be safe with whatever you try and don't get too experimental with some of those iffy over the counter drugs out there. You never know whats in them, you never know the side effects, and you never know if they can harm you in the long term.

If this is a real issue for you, try focusing on foreplay more and having sex be the 5 minute session that puts you both "over the top". You may even realize it to be more enjoyable. Many women actually get off more from foreplay or at least it excites them more and gives them a better chance for orgasm during the actually penetration.

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